Surgery lasted 2 hours.
It was a bad morning to begin with because when I got to her house at 4:00am you could cut the tension with a knife. She was just trying to keep from crying. She and my son in law had an awful fight the night before.
He would not speak, so she shut down and it was just awful.
I went back with them to her house after the surgery and he left. She and I crawled into her bed together and slept for 3 hours.
I tried to talk to him a little when he came back but he wouldn't say anything.
I left there at 8:00 to come home and go to bed. I have to have her back downtown for them to remove the bandages and "look".
There was a text message on my phone this morning from him saying that she was in tremendous pain and throwing up which was causing worse pain since she can not bend her head over like that. They had put a call into the doctor on call. That was a 2:00am message. I wish they had called me. I message beep on my cell phone does not wake me up.
I was really praying to wake up differently than this. Another day of this toxic "resentment" feeling I have for my son in law, and another day of my child in physical and emotional pain. Oh well. Here we go.