Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Wednesday

The downside of marriage is that all the money in the bank account also belongs to someone else. So does the dog, the groceries, the covers, the remote and the vehicle(s).  Just sayin'.

I'm having such problems working with Ms. Talks-too-much.  I seem to be full of judgmental thinking while talking to her.  I don't like this attitude I'm having and I'm not sure where it's coming from. I have made several passive-aggressive statements to her and that is not helpful.  She is in pain but I can't seem to get past "how" she presents her pain.  Woe is me stuff just wears me out and she should not have to pay the price for my lack of empathy.  I am so glad that I am not a therapist, that would be so exhausting.

All three of my children received a nice sum of money from a small trust fund.  None of them are asking me how they should spend it/invest it or deal with it period.  None of them have ever seen this amount of money, much less held it in their hands.  Please read between the lines here my faithful readers who know me and my children.  Yeah, ya feelin' me????

The sun is about to come up and God arrives with it each morning.  I just need enough strength and fortitude for Wednesday May 2.  I will be showing up in the lives of a lot of people today.  There will be 100's on the freeway to and from work.  I will pass over a 100 people in my office and no telling how many during my lunch break.  If I walk with God all day, I have endless opportunities to make a difference somewhere.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Go get 'em, pretty lady. With numbers like that, you are sure to make an impact.

Mary LA said...

Passive-aggressive is the official language of the alcoholically afflicted. I could have taken a doctorate in it. You have all my sympathy on this one.

Hope said...

Thank you Pammie. I needed reminding that I need strength and fortitude just for today, not the rest of my life. I lost sight of that in the night when I was laying awake.

I've never handled larger than paycheck sums of money very well and have had to forgive myself for that.

Syd said...

I am glad not to be a therapist also, and actually have moments when I am tired of working with newcomers, but thankfully, I get over those moments quickly. Have a good day, Pammie.

dAAve said...

Damn ghurl!
You need some money all your own.

Annette said...

I've been married a long time....its just second nature that it all belongs to the two of us. I'm glad I don't have to carry these burdens alone. And that includes bills and dogs. :o) Plus he makes more money than I do. lol

And hell yeah I'm feelin ya!!! That would be tough to stay out of. I can feel my skin beginning to flush just thinking about that.

Mary Christine said...

I wish I had someone who would share his money with me. I would be happy to give him the remote.

Jess Mistress of Mischief said...

Love you Pammie. And ROFLMAO MC :)

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